This week, I’m traveling to Los Angeles for a round table discussion with a small group of wildly successful people who all have one thing in common: we were medicated with psychiatric drugs when we were kids.

We connected through a private WhatsApp chat hosted by a megawatt podcaster. Around 800 of us are in the group, all of whom have either guested or will be guesting on this podcast (my episode should be released by the end of the year.) Amid the usual chatter about sales funnels and product launches, the conversation turned to medicating kids. Multiple people chimed in about how a childhood spent on Adderal, benzos, and antidepressants derailed the first third of their lives and led to addiction, psych wards, and prison.

Though all of us are lucky to have come through it, one person put it best:

“After years of struggle, I’ve finally overcome the battle but not without an immense cost to my sanity, family, and friends.”

All of us were minors when we were medicated, so all of our parents signed off on the treatment. I can’t speak for anyone else’s parents, but my mom maintains that had she known what she knows now, she would have at least gotten a second and third opinion before filling my scripts.

Though most of my focus is on psych drug withdrawal and how to find yourself in the aftermath of long-term psych drug use, I always hope my work makes people think twice about starting a psychiatric drug in the first place. And I especially hope it stops parents from drugging their kids just because it’s the easy way out and every other parent is doing it. The costs of this choice are incalculable. I cannot overstress that there is zero scientific backing or research exploring the effects of psychiatric drugs on developing minds and bodies. To drug your kid with stimulants, antidepressants, or antianxiety drugs takes away their agency, turns them into an experiment, and can irrevocably change their system and perception of the world for the rest of their life.

And if you don’t believe me, maybe the work of Robert Whitaker, a Pulitzer prize finalist, or Dr. David Healy, former Secretary of the British Association for Psychopharmacology can sway you.

With that, here are five books I think every parent should read before medicating their kid or taking their kid to a psychiatrist.

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By Robert Whitaker

There is an uncomfortable question in the world of mental health and treatment that everyone thinks about, but no one says out loud: If medicating mental illness with psychiatric drugs was working, why are people getting worse?

This book examines over fifty years of research to find the answer and comes to a startling conclusion. I think it is the single most comprehensive and explanatory book on the market about the true nature and outcomes of psychiatric drugs and that it should be required reading in all medical schools.

It is also divided into multiple diagnoses (schizophrenia, bipolar, depression, and ADHD), which I found particularly useful as someone who focuses mostly on the history and treatment of depression.

By Ethan Watters

To understand why mental illness has such a strong pull in American culture, it is important to understand how mental illness is created in the first place. Yes, created.

When I was depressed and taking antidepressants, I thought my depression was caused by a chemical imbalance and that it was just who I was. After all, that’s what the doctors told me. We now know the chemical imbalance theory is unsubstantiated, and yet the narrative remains.

Watters’ book blew my mind by showing exactly how the false chemical imbalance theory was exported all over the world and why this has fundamentally affected recovery rates—for the worse—all over the globe. 

By David Healy

Though this is technically an academic book, it is extremely readable and the best account of the manipulative marketing, hidden court cases, and corruption that occurred during the development of Prozac and Zoloft.

It’s one of those books where, if my mother or I had read it before I was medicated at 15, I’m quite sure we would not have made the same choices. 

By Ben Goldacre

A book about pharmaceutical corruption and manipulative science can rarely make me laugh out loud, but Bad Science does just that.

Not only did the book make me a better advocate for my health by teaching me what red flags to look out for in research and shady science journalism, but it kept me consistently entertained to the point where I was disappointed when the book ended. It should be required reading in all high school science classes. 

By Abigail Shrier

It took me a long time to understand how my mother’s well-intentioned decision to send me to a child psychologist derailed my whole life, but Bad Therapy finally put the pieces together. In being diagnosed with depression and anxiety as a teen—and consequently medicated for it—a message was sent by the adults around me: I did not have the capacity to help myself.  

That unspoken message haunted me for the next fifteen years, leading me down a path of self-induced victimhood, fragility, and, paradoxically, more depression. I see this happening with an entire generation, and this book explains why—a must-read for every parent or medicated kid. 

The act of reading—specifically sitting down with a physical book or Kindle—tells me a person has the ability to focus, slow down, and live life with intention and curiosity. Whether they read fiction or nonfiction, sci-fi or biographies, they are likely to contribute to conversations and process ideas that may not be in line with their own beliefs. In short, it demonstrates that they are open and capable of growth.

Books are also the fastest and cheapest way to change your life. I have little patience for people who can’t solve their own problems when there are literal libraries filled with free resources to address your exact issue.

This year’s roundup of books is very much focused on troubleshooting existence. From breathing to protein to getting what you want from others, here are the 10 books I read that will make for a happier life.

Landbridge: A Life in Fragments by Y-Dang Troeung

This is the best, most impactful book I read all year. It earned rare display status in my living room, and I tear up just looking at it. It’s also written by a friend who died a year ago this week, so I’m feeling especially tender.

Though you can get creative and get this book in the US by following my link, it’s currently only available in Canada. The US release date is set for later this year.

“In 1980, Y-Dang Troeung and her family were among the last of the 60,000 refugees from Cambodia that then-Prime Minister Pierre Trudeau pledged to relocate to Canada. As the final arrivals, their landing was widely documented in newspapers, with photographs of the PM shaking Y-Dang’s father’s hand, reaching out to pat baby Y-Dang’s head. Forty years later, in her brilliant, astonishing book, Y-Dang returns to this moment, and to many others before and after, to explore the tension between that public narrative of happy ‘arrival,’ and the multiple, often hidden truths of what happened to the people in her family.

In precise, beautiful prose accompanied by moving black-and-white visuals, Y-Dang weaves back and forth in time to tell stories about her parents and two brothers who lived through the Cambodian genocide, about the lives of her grandparents and extended family, about her own childhood in the refugee camps and in rural Ontario, and eventually about her young son’s illness and her own diagnosis with a terminal disease. Through it all, Y-Dang looks with bracing clarity at refugee existence, refusal of gratitude, becoming a scholar, and love.”

Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art by James Nestor

In the realm of books that will solve most of your problems, Breath is #1 on the list. Told with a journalistic flair that keeps you reading, Breath explores the most basic, common thing humans do—breathing—and explains exactly why you’re doing it wrong, how it’s creating your physical problems, and how to fix it with a quick trip to the drug store.

The Medium is the Massage by Marshall McLuhan

It’s been six months since I stopped consuming any news or current events, and I cannot overemphasize how much this choice has positively affected my life. McLuhan’s book is a meta, visual explanation of why this occured, showing how we are unconsciously influenced by media through brilliant illustration.

And lest you think this book falls into the camp of “dangerous alternative media,” know that it was first published in 1967, establishing it as one of the rare works that stands the test of time.

Forever Strong: A New Science Based Strategy for Aging Well by Dr. Gabrielle Lyon

Much of my year has been focused on understanding how nutrition affects mental and physical performance. I’ve ditched dozens of foods I thought were helping but turned out to be hurting—oats, kale, and seed oils to name a few—and am focusing on a more primal, stripped back diet that leans more into red meat.

An easy read with a focus on unraveling the false narrative surrounding meat, Lyon touches on the history of our bogus food pyramid, why so many people are physcially weak and overweight, and how more muscle means better health and longevity.

Born to Run: A Hidden Tribe, Superathletes, and the Greatest Race the World Has Never Seen by Christopher McDougall

I picked this book off a friend’s shelf when I was too jetlagged to function, and it changed my entire perspective on what my body was capable of doing.

In less than three months, I went from someone who hated running and thought I wasn’t “built” for it to someone who is excited to spend an hour in the woods, running six miles with 2000 feet of elevation.

Plus, it’s a damn good story that will speak to anyone with any inclination towards physical activity.

Walking in Wonder: Eternal Wisdon for a Modern World by John O’Donohue

I like to read philosophy or poetry before bed, and John O’Donohue is the perfect lullaby.

“Widley recognized as one of the most charismatic and inspirational enduring voices on the subjects of spirituality and Celtic mysticism, these timeless exchanges span a number of years and explore themes such as imagination, landscape, the medieval mystic Meister Eckhart, aging, and death. Presented in O’Donohue’s inimitable lyrical style, and filled with rich insights that will feed the ‘unprecedented spiritual hunger’ he observed in modern society, Walking in Wonder is a welcome tribute to a much-loved author whose work still touches the lives of millions around the world.”

The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture by Gabor Mate

Read this book. Just do it. Listen to it on audiobook if that’s what you need to do. Make it the only book you read if you only choose one.

“Over four decades of clinical experience, Maté has come to recognize the prevailing understanding of “normal” as false, neglecting the roles that trauma and stress, and the pressures of modern-day living, exert on our bodies and our minds at the expense of good health. For all our expertise and technological sophistication, Western medicine often fails to treat the whole person, ignoring how today’s culture stresses the body, burdens the immune system, and undermines emotional balance. Now Maté brings his perspective to the great untangling of common myths about what makes us sick, connects the dots between the maladies of individuals and the declining soundness of society—and offers a compassionate guide for health and healing.”

Crazy Like Us: The Globalization of the American Psyche by Ethan Watters

If you’re a regular reader of HIAS, you’ll recognize this book from several of this year’s issues. This book should be required reading for anyone in the mental health field, becuase it’s going to force you to re-evaluate what you think mental illness is.

A Walk in the Physical: Understanding the Human Experience Within the Larger Spiritual Context by Christian Sundberg

By far the most out-there reccomendation on this list, A Walk in the Physical is the account of a man who was born with the spiritual veil “half open.” He remembers life before life, and attempts to explain what happens to souls before we come into human form—and after we leave through death.

Though the writing isn’t going to win any awards, it’s worth reading simply for the premise. Whether you belive what he’s saying or not, its sure to make you think.

How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie

“Why are you reading Dale Carnegie? He was old when I was your age.”

This is what said to me when she saw this book on my coffee table, indicating just low long this book has been around. Classics are classics for good reason, though, and there are plenty of nuggets in Carnegie’s book that are still relevant today.

The trick I use the most: Using people’s name to get what I want.

When you’re interacting with people, whether it’s a cashier or someone you know personally, play around with saying their name when making a request or giving a complement. We are conditioned to respond to our name, and assuming the tone is in kind, you’ll be shocked at how much easier it is to get people to help or respond to you.